I can't thank my parents enough for being such a huge part of Vivien's life. We're all very lucky to have both our parents so involved and wanting to care for her. These past few days I have been so spoiled by my mother. I guess Mama's never stop spoiling there babies!
Since my dad has been sick, she's refused to let me take Vivien to her house and has been staying with Lance and I. If anyone knows my parents personally, then they know how awesome they are. My mom and I actually have a great relationship and always have. So having her stay with me is a breeze, but I feel bad because she goes above and beyond!
Here's a snapshot of what its like having Mom around:
- Hourly emails/text messages on what Vivien has been up to: eating, sleeping, pooping, playing, etc.
- She finds time to sweep and vacuum, clean my bathrooms, & makes the bed!
- Makes dinner and snacks for Lance and I (last night she whipped up some deviled eggs)
- Last night she helped me make Vivien's baby food for the week.
By the end of my spoiled week, her and I kicked back with a glass of wine and some dark chocolate and watched Sex & The City. How freakin lucky am I? It doesn't get any better than this unless you have a live in nanny. My bestfriend (who is preggers) is considering a live in nanny and at first I thought the idea was a little strange, but now I am totally in agreeance!
- She won't have to fight traffic in the morning to drop of her baby [insert screaming, tired child in carseat]
- She doesn't have to worry about the sick kids and strangers in a daycare.
- She can drive straight home from work and her baby will be waiting for her with open arms
- A live in Nanny can help clean and prep dinner
- Baby gets personal attention instead of several babies being cared for
If you can afford it, then a nanny is the way to go! Of course, I recommend references only, a thorough background check and a nanny cam installed.